For me, I like to feel a little stretched but not so much that it hurts or s3x requires tons of foreplay. For me that’s right about 5 inches circumference. I also like…
feeling full and being feeling him deep inside me but cerv1x smashing is no good either. For me that ideal length is about 5.5 to 6 inches. A little shorter means my legs will be up over is shoulders for deeper penetration and a little longer means missionary or me on top.
However, the important thing to remember is that in that normal range, the feeling of a little more stretching or a little less stretching is pretty minor. Think about a girl who is a little bit tighter than another girl. The tightness isn’t what makes a difference for the quality of the s3x.
Also, I have a bunch of toys. Sometimes I want a huge dildo inside of me. When I’m in control it’s easier to take something big. That doesn’t mean I wish my partner had a d1ck that big. And it doesn’t make him feel smaller. If I use a big toy I do feel stretched out for about an hour. But then I’ve noticed that my muscles tighten up making me feel tighter than I would otherwise.
Also, I don’t go around comparing one guy to another. Unless I’m going back and forth between guys (which I do sometimes) in one session I might not even notice who is bigger…assuming the average range.
Anyway, I hope my honest comments have helped some people feel a little more relaxed about
all of this. Feel free to reply back with questions and I’d love to hear if other ladies feel the same.